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coolbean (account has been reverted to before we moved back to this instance)
coolbean
probably dumb hot take
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not being polyam is a personal failing tbh
like i genuinely think both being (open to) polyam itself and particularly the mental prerequisites thereof are just all around positives that let you handle relationships much more healthily
my view is definitely biased, particularly after hearing about a friend being trapped in a pretty unhealthy love triangle thatd be so easily resolved if they could just... yea
but they cant so instead its spiralling into unhealthy behaviours and guilt
like i genuinely think both being (open to) polyam itself and particularly the mental prerequisites thereof are just all around positives that let you handle relationships much more healthily
my view is definitely biased, particularly after hearing about a friend being trapped in a pretty unhealthy love triangle thatd be so easily resolved if they could just... yea
but they cant so instead its spiralling into unhealthy behaviours and guilt
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