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vammie is conflicted about marriage
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marriage is patriarchal repressive bullshit that denies us autonomy but also i really wish my bf would wife me up please oh god fucking marry yo girl already 😭

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vammie is conflicted about marriage
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it’s a tool of hierarchy, it’s outdated, it’s centered around toxic forms of monogamy, please let’s start a family together oh my god let’s walk down the aisle already.

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I can't say that I've ever heard the phrase "wife me up" before lmao
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@vamanimal marriage is cringe and stuff but also like,,, need wife,,,
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vammie is conflicted about marriage
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relationships should be built around continuous consent not a vow we made decades ago, also ā€œtill death do us partā€ sounds very reasonable to me we should make a lifelong commitment

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vammie is conflicted about marriage
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i don’t wanna be a boring straight couple with my bf, i love my gf to bits even if she wants to keep things more laid-back but like also we’re so iconic together we’re made for each other please carry me over the threshold it’ll be so romantic

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changing names is such a silly practice that carries over from treating women as property to be sold to another family, even hyphenation is unnecessary, no this paper with our names written together ten times was just a silly thing i did to pass the time and not a form of deep yearning.

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@vamanimal me n the boys and girls walkin down a really wide aisle to get a really long marriage certificate to start a wild familycule

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vammie is conflicted about marriage
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@vamanimal yeah 🄺

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@vamanimal The history is fucked but the sentiment is still good.
If I ever get married it's going to be a very small and chill ceremony that lasts no more than two hours and a maximum of ten people will be present.
But honestly I don't really give a fuck about marriage, that's just how much I'm willing to deal with. Any more and I'll get burnt out.

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@vamanimal It doesn’t have to be hierarchical or patriarchal. At its core marriage is essentially a legal friendship bracelet. A marriage can be equal.

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