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OrangeCatCatBoys
mention of grooming, abuse, long rant, trauma
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what abusers dont realize is that by attempting to enter the spaces and communities you were once in, and got rightfully kicked out of for your behavior, is that you are not letting the people affected by your actions heal. not only that, but you are also affecting others that have been in similar situations, the same abuse you gave to others. when you do shit like trying to come back under a new identity, you are only causing harm to those that have already had enough harm done to them, whether by you, or people like you.
do you really not expect the people you abused to have friends? know people they can trust and talk about the things you've done? do you not think some of those people may have gone through similar trauma?
don't come back. you will be found out. you will reopen those wounds and cause more harm to those that need to heal. grow and change. leave them behind.
im tired of having to relive the worst years of my life because abusers can't see, or don't care about, the harm they cause by weaseling their way back into the communities they once harmed. im tired of having to watch friends suffer from your actions over and over again.
do you really not expect the people you abused to have friends? know people they can trust and talk about the things you've done? do you not think some of those people may have gone through similar trauma?
don't come back. you will be found out. you will reopen those wounds and cause more harm to those that need to heal. grow and change. leave them behind.
im tired of having to relive the worst years of my life because abusers can't see, or don't care about, the harm they cause by weaseling their way back into the communities they once harmed. im tired of having to watch friends suffer from your actions over and over again.
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