"Women and NB" events always give me the weirdest vibes
like. am i this gender to go on this ride, idk
there is so much different genders in that enby space im always left wondering what subset they mean
which makes me question what genders in the women space they want as well
@mynotaurus to be quite frank, I don't personally feel welcome at spaces that describe themselves like that. Partially my problem but yeah.
annoying that theres no queer social events in my department, id leap on those instantly
cant help but feel like i have to round down my pointy gender to make it civil enough for a "Women and NB" social event idk. seems very... cis? formal gender ig
@dragonminded forced into confronting my gender dilemmas by having an ice cream bribe dangled in front of me
@mynotaurus some of the most awkward, dysphoria inducing and shitty situations I've been in have been going to those events LMAO.
@dragonminded yeaaaah theres no way in hell id go to this if i wasnt also going with other transfems and vaguegender friends lmao
@mynotaurus I'll just get you ice cream, how about that?
@mynotaurus yeah. thereโs a thing i want to go to thatโs woman and NB. and i could technically go. but i never feel like i have proof that iโm enby (and that proof will never exist) and as nice as itโll be to do stuff with a group that isnโt all cis men it being all cis women might be worse???
but at the same time, mario kart.
lol the main group basically didnt acknowledge us at all but i did get to hang with my friends instead and eat ice cream so arguably better