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fluttergirly@chitter.xyz
I think often asexual people get thought of as being in the prude/puritan/etc. camp but really its the exact opposite, I do not care about sex in the slightest, so I do not care what things people are into or not. people can do whatever they want with sex stuff, it has nothing to do with me lol
if you're gonna try to get me to care about x y or z thing or think its bad or whatever you've got an uphill battle ahead of you because I don't give two shits about it lmao
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@fluttergirly i think sex positivity and asexuality go hand in hand. it’s about letting ppl do what they want and are comfortable with.
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@fluttergirly there's definitely the kind of person who is like "this personally gives me the ick and thus I've concluded that it is evil and should be illegal" and I bet some of those folks are ace (and probably deeply in denial about it).
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refraction 
elexia@catcatnya.com
@fluttergirly keeping in mind here that for women in particular there has long been a narrative that they don't want sex (but should provide it to their partner) and it's very easy to see given that how someone would come to see their own asexuality as the "normal", "correct" way to be and brand women that aren't like that as sexual deviants.
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shroomie/joan (of the agaric system)
shroomie@fluttergirly i think i’ve seen maybe one asexual person who was prudish, ever. tbh it’s disrespectful as fuck to assume that just because somebody doesn’t want something for themselves, that they don’t want it for anybody
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