@gotrans Respectfully anyone who doesn’t believe in free will is either so religious that I don’t want to interact with them or is on some level willing to shift blame for their actions onto the nebulous concept of lacking free will. I have free will because all alternatives are terrifying and I don’t want to follow a belief system that strips away my own agency
@gotrans free will is real. but personally i am just a puppet. my influence over my life feels minimal
@gotrans third answer, does it matter? I’ll settle on a course of actions no matter what so why make a big deal out of if i ever truly made a choice in the first place
@gotrans beep.
like, technically it is me calling the shots. but theres so many external factors that i feel trapped
@gotrans I think a lot of human behavior is to some extent influenced by factors outside our control, environment obviously plays a part in what kind of person you become, etc. I’d be a different person if I was born into different circumstances, if my family were different people, that sort of thing.
But at the same time, I fully believe I have free will. I may not have chosen the specific options available to me, but I am the one who chooses which of those actions I take. Were I a different version of myself, who grew up differently, maybe I would have different options available, maybe there are fundamentally options that I’m unable to take for physical or mental reasons that a different version of me could.
But the options I do have, I still choose which one I take. I still think over my choices, I still behave in the way that I decide to. Sometimes I make mistakes, sometimes my choices are influenced in the moment by my emotions in ways I wish they weren’t, but that’s still my decision. I’ve worked hard on minimizing the effects negative emotions have on my actions and the choices I make, and I feel like believing I have no free will reduces that progress, at least to me.
I’m not in control of everything, there are things in life that happen outside my control. But I control myself. I can work on having better control over my actions, better control over my decisions. I believe in free will because I hate the idea that even my own actions are outside my control because it minimizes the work I’ve put into controlling them. What point is there in bettering myself and attempting to handle my issues if there’s no actual free will to my choices?
That’s how I feel, at least. I think choosing to not believe in free will might be an self-perpetuating coping mechanism, where if you feel your existence is outside your control, you’ll never be able to gain any amount of control over it by refusing to try. It might be comforting, but I don’t think I’d have made the progress I have if I allowed myself to feel that way. Everyone is different, though, so maybe it’s not harmful for you the way it would be for me, I can’t say for certain.