Appreciation post:
Thanks to the trans fems that not only do not demonize T and men and masculinity but actually call it out in other trans fems and actively support their trans masc siblings.
Most of the trans fems I know on here are awesome and I truly appreciate that but there are definitely trans fems on here (and in the real world) that demonize T, hate on men and mascs, and are anti-trans masc.
I’ve lost a few that showed their colors in some direct discussions but better off without them if they won’t listen and are anti-transmasc.
@Melezioh since i'm not in the relatively privileged (in queer society) spot of being a femme I just do my normal thing of thinking "oh, this place is not cool" and then leaving and not coming back; so yes i too appreciate when transfems call that out.
@Melezioh honestly i feel like someone can personally dislike something while also appreciating that it’s beautiful to someone else. its not that hard, either. i’m gonna do it right now. i don’t like taylor swift but i’m glad she exists because she makes a lot of people happy. there. boom. done. easy.