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I wish there was a way to like, beam how someone makes you feel into their head. Saying "I love you and you make me happy" isn't enough, I need them to viscerally know how much they mean to me.
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mona, the unofficial spokesperson for nirvana the band

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@AppleAmps if u make arts, make a art for them. I do little drawings for my bestie.

[whispers] make a zine

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See, this is good advice, but I'm never really sure like, *when* to do that kinda stuff, y'know? Obviously there's like, birthdays and holidays and anniversaries but doing it outside of the societally sanctioned "gift giving times" makes it feel like, kind of a grand gesture in an overly intense, overbearing way. idk.
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mona, the unofficial spokesperson for nirvana the band

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@AppleAmps I see that. But you did say you wanted them to know how much you viscerally love them blobcatBread

One thing I've been trying to do is when I feel like expressing love or thankfulness I go and express that love or thankfulness. So, basic ass advice, but listen to your heart.

I don't think you need to go big tho, a doodle, some short words, a "I saw this and it reminded me of you", sharing a thing u think they might like, little things like that matter a lot.

Obligatory zine rec:
https://uguubella.itch.io/to-u-from-me-fillintheblank-zine

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Y'know what, good point! Gonna try this out for size later.
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mona, the unofficial spokesperson for nirvana the band

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@AppleAmps Yay! blobcatHappy

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