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AppleAmps

Amps

Edited 11 days ago
No shade but I don't really get the transfem cultural thing of referring to your partner as your wife. Like that's so committal! Whatever happened to just a girlfriend, maybe even a fling? I've had one or two relationships I could describe as the latter, and certainly never dated anyone I could describe as a spouse!
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@AppleAmps it just feels nice i think???
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AppleAmps

Amps

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Nicer than just girlfriend/boyfriend/partner?
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I mean just personally calling someone my wife or husband just makes it sound like so much more effort, like I'm 17, y'know? It's never that committal.
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@AppleAmps i mean not really to me??? but i also do kinda get it, and the part of me that understands sees how nice it is
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